By: Chandre Stemmers, Deputy President of the Insurance Institute of Western Cape
Ah, Women’s Month – a cherished highlight of my year. This time offers a chance for introspection and anticipation, a moment to contemplate how we, as women, can coalesce in a spirit of empowerment. For me, it’s more than just Women’s Day; it’s a month-long celebration, an opportunity to express gratitude for the exceptional women who illuminate our paths, both in professional and personal spheres. As this period unfolds, several reflections come to mind. Who stood out as the guiding light of my year? What remarkable transformations have unfolded since the previous August? Have I contributed to these changes? Have I uplifted a fellow industry peer?
The journey has brought me across the paths of numerous awe-inspiring women, each leaving an indelible mark of empowerment. It’s reminiscent of a puzzle, with each woman representing a unique piece – distinct in shape, size, and fit. While we are diverse, we are equally integral to the broader masterpiece. These exceptional women, each forging their own paths, are true leaders within their communities, whether in the workplace, family, social circles, or cultural spheres. Their authenticity resonates, their individuality adding immeasurable value to their respective circles.
These journeys encompass a spectrum of experiences—some are newcomers, eagerly navigating uncharted industry waters, while others are seasoned professionals, navigating challenges with wisdom and determination. Every woman’s saga echoes her courage, resolve, and unyielding spirit to leave her imprint.
Recently, I immersed myself in Magda Wierzycka’s “My Journey,” a book that resonated profoundly. It chronicles her life’s trajectory – leaving Poland, maturing in South Africa, and navigating the predominantly male-dominated financial services industry. A key observation surfaced from her tale: the distinct modus operandi between men and women in the workplace. Men often operate in silos, striving for individual victories, while women are driven by collaboration to achieve shared goals efficiently. This illuminates an innate trait in women – a preference for collective progress, where unity is prioritized. Wierzycka’s story mirrors how women, situated at various points along their professional journeys, navigate through distinct challenges, seizing unparalleled opportunities. This multiplicity of experiences enriches the industry by infusing diverse viewpoints and innovative solutions. Wierzycka’s account accentuates women’s collaborative nature, their innate empathy, and their collective dedication to progress.
Her chronicle also underscores the pivotal role fathers play in empowering their daughters. This sentiment aligns closely with the legacy left by my own father, Mark Stemmers, a prominent figure in the short-term insurance industry. He epitomized the essence of nurturing daughters to carve their unique paths – advocating for independence, self-assuredness, and the importance of defining personal boundaries. His legacy, mirrored by countless other fathers, lays the groundwork for daughters to flourish, regardless of their point in their individual odysseys.
Amidst this tapestry of empowerment and diversity, one cannot overlook the unwavering strength of single mothers, embracing dual roles as parents. They exemplify the theme that every woman adapts to various roles, embracing challenges and opportunities as they mold their distinct stories. And in the backdrop of it all, an unyielding support system at home emerges as a potent force. Whether in the form of a spouse, partner, or friend, these individuals shoulder a pivotal role in shepherding women through a gamut of challenges and possibilities. Equally crucial is the influence of a supportive colleague – a brief but sincere conversation during lunch can brighten a day and transform perspectives.
The notion that every woman journeys uniquely, immersed in different roles and experiences, underscores the importance of standing by one another, both within the workplace and beyond.
As we continue to celebrate Women’s Month, a poignant realization emerges – our collective saga is a mosaic of resilience, ambition, and camaraderie. The theme that every woman’s journey holds a unique place within the broader story gains even more significance. It’s a recognition that our paths, while distinct, converge to create a tapestry of strength and progress. This commemorative month serves as a reminder that the short-term insurance industry is not merely a professional arena; it’s a canvas where women, from various walks of life, wield their prowess to redefine norms and forge ahead. Their roles encompass leadership, innovation, mentorship, and more, painting a vibrant picture that radiates inspiration.
Amidst this vibrant tale, Magda Wierzycka’s journey and the enduring influence of fathers like Mark Stemmers underline the pivotal roles that empower women. Wierzycka’s resilience and the wisdom passed down by fathers embolden us to not only shatter glass ceilings but to shape an inclusive and collaborative industry.
In celebrating the unique journeys of women, we embrace the diversity of challenges and opportunities that shape our tales. From single mothers taking charge to supportive colleagues lending a compassionate ear, each element intertwines to cultivate a supportive environment. As Women’s Month unfolds, it is our shared responsibility to ensure that every woman’s journey is acknowledged, respected, and amplified. By fostering unity, cultivating mentorship, and championing authenticity, we perpetuate a legacy that not only enriches the short-term insurance industry but also reverberates across industries and generations.